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On the power we give our employers

I almost always enjoy finding out that someone reads my posts. We are social creatures and it's not enough to just call out into the darkness; part of the pleasure comes in knowing someone out there has understood and answered back. I write about my experiences with anxiety and mental health care -- including medication -- because I am living them. But also because I believe strongly that we can't de-stigmatize mental health issues if no one who has them is ever willing to out herself.  I write about my experiences as a parent -- and a child. I write about my experiences with race, gender, economic class, status, religion, hierarchy, and social norms because it is only through thinking and writing about the world that I ever understand even a small slice of it -- and my relationship to it. I write about politics and policy because these are the intellectual pursuits that fire me. If there's one moment to sum up my adult life it's of my 21-year-old self wandering...

Bees in Cups Getting Coffee

©Jesse Christopherson, 2014
When life confronts us with evidence that there is a gap between who we perceive ourselves to be and who we really are, we have three possible choices: 1- change who we are to match our perceptions, 2- change our perceptions to match who we are, 3- deny there's a conflict.  I have, at various times, tried all three strategies.